ndFiing your marriage partner is one of the greatest adventures you will ever have in your life. Being the type of person who will attract the kind of man you are looking for is part of that adventure. Morals and values are the standard here. By holding yourself abstinent from sex, your partner will never have to worry about who a child’s parents are, getting a disease, or that you were promiscuous. Your boundaries for yourself should include the respect of your body, heart, mind and soul.
How mature are you? Can you step away from the fairy tale view of marriage and understand the concept of sharing every intimate moment of life with someone who will be with you for all of your lives? When both individuals realize that both people are human with human flaws and foibles, the better off you both will be in learning to adjust to each other as lifetime partners.
Have you met the goals that you set for yourself before leaving high school? Are you as educated as you would like to be? Once you are married, children are a natural desire. Education would have to be put off for a while until the children were not quite so dependent on mom. Prepare yourself for life before you are married. Hold out for the ring from the one who truly loves you. When they love you, they will wait. They believe you are worth waiting for and want sex to happen on your wedding night.